We Are the Lord’s

We Are the Lord’s

Part of learning to care for a person with a chronic or terminal illness is realizing we are the Lord’s. Today most people live for themselves and live for the moment. This lifestyle is different from how a Christian should live.

The purpose of the Christian life is to do the Lord’s will and promote his glory by our life. Being a Believer in Jesus Christ doesn’t mean you cannot have fun. On the contrary, it allows you to have fun without regrets.

My Story

I still recall the conversation. Rarely have I hated having such a talk. Forever I am glad we did.

“Jimmie, we need to talk,” said Miss Benita. I glanced in her direction. Her usual smile and happy attitude were on her face. It was the real seriousness in her voice that caught my attention.

I also realized we needed to talk right now. Being married to the same person for over forty years helps you understand she means we need to talk and she means we need to do it now.

I didn’t take time to get or doing anything. I gave her my complete attention.

“What’s on your mind,” I said as lovingly and supportive as I could. I wanted her to know she had my complete attention and whatever was on her mind was the most important thing in the world to me. If it was her concern, it was my concern.

“You know I am about to start the radiation treatment on the area of my head where the neurologist removed the brain tumor.”

I nodded.

“When the tumor recurs, and it will recur, don’t you go letting them cut on my head again. I don’t want any more surgeries. Them cutting on me isn’t going to save me. Jesus already saved me when I was a girl.”

“So you’re saying –” I started.

“I’m saying, love me enough to let me go. It’s going to be okay for me. I’ll be in heaven with Mama, Daddy, Willie, and Grandma before the hospice people get my time of death called in,” she said with a calm and peace of mind that can only come from God.

“Oh, okay.”

“Don’t go being selfish. Let me go to heaven. Love me enough to let me go. You and the children will be okay. I’ll be seeing you all again when you get to heaven. Even the kids that aren’t attending church or living for the Lord are going to be there. We trained them up the best we could, we shared Jesus with them, they professed Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior, and even when they or you or I am not living for the Lord, we’re still saved. I know you know that.”

I nodded.

Then she quoted from memory Romans 14:8 (KJV), “For whether we live, we live unto the Lord; and whether we die, we die unto the Lord: whether we live therefore, or die, we are the Lord’s.” She then added, “I’m the Lord’s”

I teared up.

She added, “Best I can figure, the Lord is leaving you here to write about him and point others to him. You need to keep writing religiously. Don’t go chasing any Stephen King or Ray Bradbury dreams of fame and fortune. If you honor God, he’ll honor you. You know that. You taught me that.”

I needed the box of Kleenex.

“The book of devotions you wrote to help me will help others. Write something for those people like you, the caregivers. You have as hard job as I have as the patient. Just keep pointing people to Jesus. We both know Jesus is the only hope anyone has. Now promise me you won’t let them cut on me anymore and that you’ll write to lead people to Jesus and help Christians grow in their faith.”

“I promise,” I said as I held her hand and then kissed the back of the hand to seal my pledge.

Eight weeks later the tumor recurred. I was told we had two options. Option one was surgery which would extend life a couple of months at the most. Choice two was hospice.

“I need your decision on which option you will choose. I need it now. The operating room is available now and not again for several days. What do you want to do?” asked the neurologist.

Miss Benita’s words reverberated throughout my head, “Don’t go being selfish. Let me go to heaven. Love me enough to let me go.”

“No more surgeries. We chose hospice,” I said.

Bible Verse

Romans 14:8 (KJV), “For whether we live, we live unto the Lord; and whether we die, we die unto the Lord: whether we live, therefore, or die, we are the Lord’s.”

What the Verse Means

The purpose of the Christian life is to do the Lord’s will and promote his glory by our life. A Christin should do this because they belong to God. Not only do we belong to God in this life but we belong to him even as we are dying and after we die.

The passage provides a reminder that the soul does not cease to be conscious at death. We are still the Lord’s.

Even when the body is in the grace, we are the Lords. 2 Corinthians 5:8 (KJV) reminds us, “We are confident, I say, and willing rather to be absent from the body, and to be present with the Lord.”

Pray Using Scripture

  • Heavenly Father if I live I live to the Lord. Help me live to the Lord. May you be glorified through my life.
  • Lord Jesus if I die I die to the Lord. Help me to die to the Lord. Help me to remember that even in the grave I am yours.
  • I proclaim to the world whether I live or whether I die, I am the Lord’s. Thank you, Lord, for the security I have as a Believer in the Lord.

Responding to God’s Hope

  1. Are you living every day to point people to Jesus? If not, ask God through prayer to help you live for Jesus.
  2. Are you spending time reading God’s word? Remember, a regular time of reading the Bible will help you as a caregiver. It will strengthen and refresh you spiritually.
  3. Who do you know in your loved one’s circle of friends that need to know Christ as Savior? Begin praying for God to soften their heart.

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This blog post is adapted from the forthcoming book, “Caregiving: A Biblical Alternative” by Jimmie Aaron Kepler, Ed.D.

4 thoughts on “We Are the Lord’s

  1. What a beautiful message of love, Jimmie. You and your wife both demonstrate your great love for the Lord and each other. You’ve shared this message of inspiration that shows us the power of love–even when it’s hard. And, you’ve asked us some hard questions–“Are you living every day to point people to Jesus?” We need to ask ourselves that EVERY day. Thanks for blessing us today.

  2. Wow, Jimmie. Thank you for your transparency and honesty with such a raw, difficult, and personal story. Thank you for your strength and encouragement that I know inspires many!

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