Faith Frees Me From Fearing Death
20.1 My Story
As death was imminent for my wife, for some reason I did not feel sorry for the brevity of her life. Oh sure, I would have preferred her being healed and having another thirty plus years with me. After all, dying at sixty-one years old is dying too young.
However, I understood that God has our days numbered. From the beginning of time, he knew when you would be born and when you will die.
Psalm 139:16 King James Version (KJV) says, “Thine eyes did see my substance, yet being unperfect; and in thy book all my members were written, which in continuance were fashioned, when as yet there was none of them.” In modern English, the verse means that God has ordained or predetermined for me the numbers of days a person will have in their life. He knew when I would be born and knows when I will die. God has this information already written in His book of life.
I found great comfort and security in knowing that God has my life so ordered that I will neither die a day sooner nor live a day longer than what has already been recorded in his book. You see, life and death are far above my pay grade, so I will happily let Father God take care of that department, thank you very much.
Without a doubt I know I clearly understand this divine principle. Because of my understanding, I am freed from fearing death. My faith which frees me from this fear allows me to live the life God had designed for me.
Knowing and trusting that God knows best allowed both my wife and me to enjoy the time we had. Instead of weeping over her upcoming death we were able to reflect and reminisce. We looked at old pictures remembering the wonderful shared events of our family, thankful for our time together.
I still recall Miss Benita thanking me for loving her and staying with her until “death do we part.” I know it was I who was the real lucky one. I give thanks to the Lord for the forty-three plus years we were married. I thank God for what we had.
When I miss her and feel sad, I focus on the memories, ask God’s forgiveness for my failures and regrets, and look forward to the Heavenly reunion I’ll have one day with late wife, Miss Benita.
I am thankful for the assurance of Heaven for the Believer in Jesus Christ.
20.2 The Value of Giving Thanks
Part of caring for a person with a chronic illness understands the value of giving thanks for what you have.
When you care for a person with a chronic illness, too often you focus on the negative and the bad. Instead of focusing on the adversity of the situation you are living through, you should give thanks for what you have.
For the caregiver and their charge who are Believers in Jesus Christ, this includes being thankful knowing that death is not the end. That separation is temporary. You know you will again see each other in Heaven.
20.3 Bible Verse
1 Thessalonians 5:18 (KJV), “In everything give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.”
20.4 What the Verse Means
The verse reminds us that Christians should not only to pray to God but also give thanks to Him. We should thank him for everything, in every circumstance, in joy as well as in sorrow.
20.5 Pray Using Scripture
- Heavenly Father help me always show gratitude to family and friends who aid and support us.
- Lord Jesus, help me to praise God daily for who He is and for His love and care.
- God Almighty, I thank You for a loving church, Bible fellowship class, our brothers and sisters-in-Christ who help and support me.
- I give thanks for the quality medical care and counsel I have as well as the health insurance that pays for so much of the treatment and prescriptions.
20.6 Responding to God’s Hope
- Are you thankful for the days you have with your loved one?
- Are you grateful for the memories you have? I am amazed God created us with the ability to have remembrances.
- Have you told your caregiving charge that your thankful for them and the opportunity to serve them?
We should thank God for everything, in every circumstance, in joy as well as in sorrow.
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This blog is from the forthcoming book, “Caregiving: Biblical Insights from a Caregiver’s Journey by Jimmie Aaron Kepler, Ed.D.
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