True Comfort – Show Notes

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Welcome. I’m Jimmie Aaron Kepler, religious nonfiction author, bringing you inspiration, information, and practical suggestions on applying biblical principles to daily living. 

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Howdy ya’ll, I’m Jim. It’s Saturday, December 4, 2021 as I record this from Dallas, Texas.

In today’s show, I’m talking about True Comfort. 

Now here’s today’s show.

Applying the Bible To Everyday Living 

I want to share with you a story about “True Comfort.” I was reading 2 Corinthians 1: 3–5 in my Bible. Here are some principles I gleaned from the Bible passage.

Introduction

Have you ever known people who, despite tragedy, comforted others?

I know a woman who, within two years, lost her husband, her father, and her two sons. When I saw her at the funeral of the last one to die, she impressed me by the way she graciously went around welcoming those who came to pay their respects. She offered comfort to others when you would think she would be the one needing the comforting.

When we’re devastated by personal hardships and suffer difficulties, finding peace and consolation is tough. We’re certainly in no position to help others.

Where do those who can comfort others while living through the aftermath of a tragedy receive the strength to help others? How do we grow through our grief and daily struggles to comfort others?

The apostle Paul was one individual who had learned the secret. He passed what he learned along to us in his second letter to the Corinthians. It is in 2 Corinthians chapter one, verses three through five, where we learn about “True Comfort.”

Principle One is The Source of True Comfort

Many people seek comfort “in all the wrong places” to borrow a thought from a song popular four decades ago.

Some people find comfort in thinking their problems are no worse than those of others. Some people in thinking things will improve without ever taking the required actions to bring about positive change. Still others believe their situation is so bad that it can’t be helped. Some people try to forget. Some people try finding comfort in exciting and dissipating pleasures of the flesh. Some in complaining and repining.

True comfort comes from God. He is called the “God of all comfort” in the Bible passage. Have you ever wondered why him?

It is because He is also the “Father of mercies.” The term “father” implies “source” as in the source of all mercies.

He is the source of all kinds of goodness and mercy.

Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change

James 1:17 ESV

Comfort is just one of His many mercies, and so He is described as: The “God of all comfort.”

Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort

2 Corinthians 1:3 ESV

The God of patience and comfort

May the God of endurance and encouragement grant you to live in such harmony with one another, in accord with Christ Jesus,

Romans 15:5

As the God of All comfort, there is no limitation to the comfort He provides.

The source of “True Comfort”, then, is God.  But when does it come, and how?

Principle Two is The Bestowal of “True Comfort.”

True Comfort is bestowed “in all our tribulation.” God comforts us when it is most needed we are told –

who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.

2 Corinthians 1:4 ESV 

The Bible teaches God will not desert us in our times of need.

He’ll be there when we need him.

for he has said, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.”

Hebrews 13:5b

He will not allow us to be tempted beyond our ability to bear.

No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.

1 Corinthians 10:13 ESV

Yes, even in “the valley of the shadow of death,” He is there to comfort us.

Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.

Psalms 23:4 ESV

Indeed, the greater the affliction, the greater the comfort.  

For as we share abundantly in Christ’s sufferings, so through Christ we share abundantly in comfort too.

As the sufferings abound, so does the consolation!

2 Corinthians 1:5 ESV

True Comfort is bestowed “through Christ.”

“… so our consolation also abounds through Christ.”

2 Corinthians 1:5

Just as with all other spiritual blessings, we find it only “in Christ”

Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places,

Ephesians 1:3

To receive the comfort that comes from God we must be “in Christ.”

Being “in Christ,” there are two avenues through which comfort is dispensed. 

The first is The Word of God.

For whatever was written in former days was written for our instruction, that through endurance and through the encouragement of the Scriptures we might have hope.

Romans 15:4 ESV 

The second is Prayer.

do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.  And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

Philippians 4: 6–7 ESV

Principle Three is The Purpose of “True Comfort”

To comfort others,

“…that we may be able to comfort those who are in any trouble”

2 Corinthians 1:4

The comfort God provides through Christ is not just for our private consumption.

“God does not comfort us to make us comfortable, but to make us comforters.”

John Henry Jowett (1817-1893)

Yes, our comfort is designed to be shared!

A case in point is how God comforted Paul. The Corinthians comforted Titus in the way they received him. 

I am acting with great boldness toward you; I have great pride in you; I am filled with comfort. In all our affliction, I am overflowing with joy. For even when we came into Macedonia, our bodies had no rest, but we were afflicted at every turn—fighting without and fear within. But God, who comforts the downcast, comforted us by the coming of Titus, and not only by his coming but also by the comfort with which he was comforted by you, as he told us of your longing, your mourning, your zeal for me, so that I rejoiced still more. … Therefore we are comforted. … And besides our own comfort, we rejoiced still more at the joy of Titus, because his spirit has been refreshed by you all.

2 Corinthians 7: 4–7, 13

So comforted by the Corinthians’ reception, Titus’ coming, then comforted Paul. Yet Paul saw that the source of this comfort was ultimately from God!

This reveals another avenue by which God gives His comfort. It may come DIRECTLY from God (e.g., through His Word–Romans 15:4 ESV).

For whatever was written in former days was written for our instruction, that through endurance and through the encouragement of the Scriptures we might have hope.

Romans 15:4 ESV

It may also come INDIRECTLY from God, through the exhortations of others,

Therefore, encourage one another with these words.

1 Thessalonians 4:18

Sadly, many people neglect all avenues through which God offers “true comfort.” 

They do not feed upon the Word and pray to receive comfort directly. Nor do they develop the network of relationships with other Christians, through which God might comfort them indirectly when needed! 

But when all avenues are used, then “true comfort” is possible, and we can then pass it along!

Principle Four is A Consequence of True Comfort

Gratitude mingled with adoration is a consequence. The Apostle Paul began our text with these words: “Blessed be the God and Father…”

Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort

2 Corinthians 1:3 ESV

It was the “true comfort” he had received that moved him to praise God.

Such praise is only natural. Not only because of the comfort we have received, but also because of the comfort we can now pass along to others!

Conclusion

Are you lacking in this “true comfort”? Perhaps you have been looking in all the wrong places. 

It comes only from “the God of all comfort.”  

It comes only “through Christ.”

Are you in Christ? 

Perhaps you are not benefiting from the comfort God gives others. There are those who would be happy to share their comfort with you. But you must develop the relationships necessary for such comfort to travel from them to you!

Are you working on your relationship with fellow Christians?

So if there is any encouragement in Christ, any comfort from love, any participation in the Spirit, any affection and sympathy, complete my joy by being of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord and of one mind. Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others. Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus

Philippians 2: 1–5 ESV 

The passage teaches For those who are faithful Christians, having delighted in fullness of “true comfort”, remember these exhortations

Therefore, comfort each other and edify one another, just as you also are doing.

1 Thessalonians 5:11

“Now we exhort you, brethren, warn those who are unruly, comfort the fainthearted, uphold the weak, be patient with all.”

1 Thessalonians 5:14

Do these things, and we will all experience the “true comfort” by which we will want to say: “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort…”

2 Corinthians 1:3

One Closing Thought

I’m a widower. I want to encourage all listeners to do their self-checks. My wife died of Melanoma Cancer. If you see a mole changing or a spot that looks unusual on your skin, get to the doctor. Do your breast self checks and get your annual lady exams.

Guys, get your annual physicals. I had a “man-exam” this past week with the PSA for the prostate. It’s no fun bending over and being checked, but it might save your life. Do yourself and your family a favor and do your self-checks.

That’s all for today. I hope today’s episode helps you find true comfort. 

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